My Window
Not my scheduled post--which of course isn't done because I've been going to see everybody else. I just came from Milt's http://milts.blogspot.com/. I love Milt's writing. As I started writing a comment I realized I wanted to share it here.
Just yesterday I read about blogging burn-out. I realized that will probably never happen to me. First, I'll probably croak before that happens and then there is the certainty that I'll never tire of visiting my friends and listening to them. To me, the real pleasures and benefits of blogging are perhaps unique to my age. I have no place more important to go, or things more vitally important to get done---and even if I do I don't have the strength or energy to do them as before. I also know that while I'm uniquely important I'm no more so than anyone else. I'm truly happy when others get lots of comments and I love listening to others more than my own head. Boy! Have I changed!
Now I realize I don't have to prove anything. I'm tired of toting around axes that need grinding and even if I've still got one or two I just adore chatting with my friends about it. What's to get burnt-out about? We can get to know each other in our own good time, enjoy rubbernecking on the party-line (remember those?), be silly, get mad, have coffee and/or a glass of wine, be trivial, be frightened and frustrated...in short, all the things many older people stop sharing with others as strength and physical freedom wane. I just regret so few elders understand how liberating blogging can be. But I'm so grateful I do!
lucyd
Just yesterday I read about blogging burn-out. I realized that will probably never happen to me. First, I'll probably croak before that happens and then there is the certainty that I'll never tire of visiting my friends and listening to them. To me, the real pleasures and benefits of blogging are perhaps unique to my age. I have no place more important to go, or things more vitally important to get done---and even if I do I don't have the strength or energy to do them as before. I also know that while I'm uniquely important I'm no more so than anyone else. I'm truly happy when others get lots of comments and I love listening to others more than my own head. Boy! Have I changed!
Now I realize I don't have to prove anything. I'm tired of toting around axes that need grinding and even if I've still got one or two I just adore chatting with my friends about it. What's to get burnt-out about? We can get to know each other in our own good time, enjoy rubbernecking on the party-line (remember those?), be silly, get mad, have coffee and/or a glass of wine, be trivial, be frightened and frustrated...in short, all the things many older people stop sharing with others as strength and physical freedom wane. I just regret so few elders understand how liberating blogging can be. But I'm so grateful I do!
lucyd
21 Comments:
At 9:58 AM, Anonymous said…
Lucy...you are one in a million and one of my very favorite people. I've always said that one's life is formed by "attitude" and yours is one of the best!
You've reached that point in life where you can do what you want, when you want and how you want...and you are living it to the fullest!
May you continue to enjoy all the special moments...because you make them so!
At 11:02 AM, kenju said…
I am grateful too, Lucy. Blogging is important to me now, and I can see that it will be even more so as I age and physical contacts get harder.
I don't know Milt, but with your recommendation, I will. Thanks!
At 11:49 AM, ell said…
Lucy, so happy to have found your blog. Makes me smile!
The longer I'm here, the more I find the blogosphere a great place to discover wonderful people.
At 12:48 PM, GUYK said…
Miss Lucy, you might want to reconsider the site meter. I have found many good reads by going to a site that I found that had came on mine but didn't leave a comment.
At 12:50 PM, goldenlucyd said…
Yep. We all be lucky! Check out chancy. She's invented a new fitness program for us.
lucyd
At 12:51 PM, goldenlucyd said…
Thanks Guy. I never thought of that before...
At 12:55 PM, Anonymous said…
Lucy, a great post.
I find that there are times when I have things that I want to share every day, and then for a while, nothing comes to my mind and I will slow down.Maybe that's blogging burn-out.
To me, blogging is great because it's not an obligation. Even if I don't write anything on my blog, I visit my friends' blogs every day. And yours is one I enjoy. Thanks
At 1:10 PM, goldenlucyd said…
So right Claude. Another blogging perk: when I'm "slow" I can count on others being in top form for me to enjoy. Just another one of life's lovely cycles.
lucyd
At 1:52 PM, Suzann said…
Darling Lucy - I so glad you are here to share yourself with us - you are one of the trailblazers to a place I am headed. Loved "no axes to grind." Love you. Suzann
At 5:59 PM, goldenlucyd said…
Suzann,
Are you back in sunny Mpls/StP? If not, soak up some more sun for me! Ah, yes. We're all headed for the same place---but it won't seem the same to all of us.
I just heard a great lecture that suggested that heaven and hell are the same place---it's just what we do there that makes the difference. The point was metaphorical but spot-on. Every mooment is what we make of it---with what we've been given to work with. When a person comes to peace with that everything becomes simpler and more potentially joyful. Folks can choose to believe and act on that fact or be a victim of it. As along as we retain our gift of choice we are able to choose life---in whatever form it manifests itself.
Hope you're having a wonderful getaway!
love, lucyd
At 8:38 PM, Chancy said…
Lucy. You always have the knack of telling it like it is and in such an entertaining way.
I loved you asking "Remember party lines" I even remember our number 17W way back then. And two rings meant someone in my family should answer. The most fun was lifting the receiver ever so gently and trying not to breathe as I "listened in". And to get a long distance call was extremely serious business. The telephone was black uniformly and straight up with a hook on the side to hold the ear piece. See what you did Lucy. You got me started roller skating down memory lane again...
Chancy
PS Thanks for the plug regarding our "Blogersize Exercise Program"
At 8:08 PM, Anonymous said…
You've come up with some great sentiments again on this post. Also, read one of yours on another blog the other day, but forgot to write down where I found it. Anyway, I specifically wanted to let you know I surely do echo what you said: "Try to forget that nothing lasts forever ... realizing nothing lasts forever is freedom."
At 8:17 PM, goldenlucyd said…
Thanks, Joared, I always appreciate hearning from you. We elders who are blessed (so far) with most of our reason and perception have an opportunity through blogging to provide encouragement and understanding to others on the path. And we are the ones who should be most grateful for it! Thanks for walking with me.
lucyd
At 5:49 AM, Anonymous said…
Hi Lucy.. another Lucy here -- actually HeresLucy. Found your site - somehow - don't really remember from where - i was clicking thru other sites and landed here. What a great post.
I'll be back
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