New Trick
It's pretty obvious I've been struggling physically and emotionally the past weeks. Nothing unique or interesting. I can find my teeth but don't want to wear them. The gaping bedhead spot in the back of my hair? So what. Can somebody else get the phone? I have nothing interesting to say...Just the human condition of feeling out of balance and half-heartedly trying to stay off the pity pot. My first thought was that my depression was a result of being cooped up in this derelict old body. But no. I don't think so---though the aches and pains don't help.
I think my fuzzy black mood was simply a part of my life cycle---something (for me) that inevitably passes. I decided to relax and let it go. I remember reading an excellent book many years ago. The title was, "Don't Push the River, It Flows By Itself" by Barry Stevens. I recollected that the message of acceptance and patience had been very helpful to me at another difficult time. I think it's time to read it again.
I also made a marvelous discovery that has lifted my spirits. My son, Dr. Science has been in the north of China on business. He used his computer to call our computers---the whole family---at once. It was such fun! The voice quality was better than using a telephone and there was no time lags between speakers. I understand these programs have been around for quite a spell but have had some technical problems in the past. This system is called Skype and even I can use it with ease. (Now that's a recommendation!)
If I'm preaching to the choir on this I'm sorry. It's possible everyone knows about this---and I realize that Skype isn't the only provider. However, it's good enough for me and I'm so excited to think that I could have a prearranged or pop-in coffee-klatch with my blogfriends. For as long as we want. From wherever we are. If you're wired to blog, you're wired to chat voice-to-voice on Skype. Yippeee!
This is all I know about it---but it works. Give it a try and call me! When Jack gets home he's going to show me how to add video to Skype. Hopefully he won't get hit by a rickshaw on his way back here.
Here's the instructions:
You can teach an old dog new tricks.....
instructions for setting up skype on your computer:
(1) connect to http://www.skype.com/ and click the "Download Now" button and follow the instructions
(2) after installing follow the instructions to create your own Skype account (hint: try using your blogger name as your skype name...I had to add 84 to mine...goldenlucy84...since goldenlucy was already taken)
(3) click the "search" button in Skype and look for goldenlucy84 then add me to your contacts
(4) now you can see when I'm online and give me a call. Just that simple!
Sounds like fun doesn't it? Opening my world even more--always a good thing.
.
I think my fuzzy black mood was simply a part of my life cycle---something (for me) that inevitably passes. I decided to relax and let it go. I remember reading an excellent book many years ago. The title was, "Don't Push the River, It Flows By Itself" by Barry Stevens. I recollected that the message of acceptance and patience had been very helpful to me at another difficult time. I think it's time to read it again.
I also made a marvelous discovery that has lifted my spirits. My son, Dr. Science has been in the north of China on business. He used his computer to call our computers---the whole family---at once. It was such fun! The voice quality was better than using a telephone and there was no time lags between speakers. I understand these programs have been around for quite a spell but have had some technical problems in the past. This system is called Skype and even I can use it with ease. (Now that's a recommendation!)
If I'm preaching to the choir on this I'm sorry. It's possible everyone knows about this---and I realize that Skype isn't the only provider. However, it's good enough for me and I'm so excited to think that I could have a prearranged or pop-in coffee-klatch with my blogfriends. For as long as we want. From wherever we are. If you're wired to blog, you're wired to chat voice-to-voice on Skype. Yippeee!
This is all I know about it---but it works. Give it a try and call me! When Jack gets home he's going to show me how to add video to Skype. Hopefully he won't get hit by a rickshaw on his way back here.
Here's the instructions:
You can teach an old dog new tricks.....
instructions for setting up skype on your computer:
(1) connect to http://www.skype.com/ and click the "Download Now" button and follow the instructions
(2) after installing follow the instructions to create your own Skype account (hint: try using your blogger name as your skype name...I had to add 84 to mine...goldenlucy84...since goldenlucy was already taken)
(3) click the "search" button in Skype and look for goldenlucy84 then add me to your contacts
(4) now you can see when I'm online and give me a call. Just that simple!
Sounds like fun doesn't it? Opening my world even more--always a good thing.
.
27 Comments:
At 6:33 PM, Joy Des Jardins said…
Sweet Lucy had the blues,
And laid in bed to snooze.
She got turned on to Skype,and now,
We all can sit and schmooze.
I've had Skype for a while...I just added you to my contacts. Happy to have you back Lucy, and happy that your blahs have lifted.
At 8:12 PM, Miss Cellania said…
I'm so glad to hear from you! You need to post once a week, even if you don't have anything to say. Just say "hi", OK? This Skype thing, don't you have to have a microphone for it? I'll work on that.
At 8:56 PM, Ann (bunnygirl) said…
I'm sorry you're in a low spot. Maybe you're just tired after all the wedding fuss and excitement of the summer?
Or maybe you need to have your levels checked. There are lots of very minor, silly little conditions that can leave one feeling out of sorts.
I'm with miss cellania-- please check in more often, even if it's just to say nothing's happening. You don't want your friends to worry, do you?
I hope you're feeling perky again soon!
At 9:42 PM, Maya's Granny said…
So glad to see you're back. I was worried there.
Would I need a mic to do this Shype thing? How fun it would be to hear your voice.
At 11:42 PM, goldenlucyd said…
Thank you, thank you all for being so understanding. (Don't you get sick of it?)
Re the mic, I think most computers have one built-in but I could be wrong. Mine is. I have only one jack and that's for a headset, which Jack says really improves reception. I don't plan on using one but it's a thought.
If you see I'm online, ring me up. I'd love to hear your voices too!
Sending hugs all around...
At 12:43 AM, SavtaDotty said…
I've been trying to get my kids to use Skype for two years, and you won't believe the excuses they make! I'll add you to my contact list for sure.
At 4:50 PM, OldLady Of The Hills said…
Darling Lucy...glad to see you are on the old bloghorn...! (lol) I'm sorry you have been feeling so poorly my dear...I understand how one can get very down about all sorts of things...especially when one struggles with physical probelms---particularly pain...!
Does this only work with cell phones? I have a cell phone but don't use it like most people do...I don't even KNOW the number, myself...I would love to get hooked up to Skype...particularly to talk to blogbuddies all over the world....That would be fantastic!!! Maybe Jack could let me know, Lucy...I would soooo love to talk to you, my dear...And BTW, I had never heard of Skype till your post!
At 11:45 PM, Anonymous said…
Lucy, Lucy ... thanks for the info on Skype. Had run across it's mention elsewhere, but was unsure I could set it up from a technical standpoint, being such a newby to the blogosphere. You give me encouragement, so must check into seeing if, in fact, I can use it.
Sounds like fretting over your general funk ... you know him, don't you? ... is counterproductive. Yeah, maybe you just need to flow with it. But ... hope you can keep in touch with all of us somehow ... 'cause you mean too much to us to not hear from you from time to time. Throw your "pity pot" at us, and we'll get you laughing, by throwing it back at you. We all have our up and down times.
At 9:56 AM, Jamie Dawn said…
I'm envisioning Jack avoiding ricksahws, and it is making me chuckle! You are funny even when you are feeling down.
I have never heard of Skype, so your info is news to me.
I will check it out sometime, but for now, I am racing to visit as many blog buddies as I can.
If you were here, I'd give you a couple of my chocolate truffles to help brighten your day. Eating them would not even require you to put in your teeth or brush your hair.
At 1:14 PM, Chancy said…
LUCY!!!
Get on up and comb your hair
We're not going anywhere
Without you.
Messy hair is not allowed
On someone as well endowed
As Lucy Lu.
Drag out that lipstick so red.
Say goodbye to that ole bed.
We miss you.
At 1:58 PM, kenju said…
Speaking of bed head, a woman on the plane with us had a very bad case of it even before boarding. I don't think she took a shower that morning (teehee). I do hope that your mood has lifted by now, Lucy. I have been away, or I might have come out there and pushed it away for you. I might even try Skype later.
At 4:34 PM, Anonymous said…
Dear Lucy--So good to see you back at blogging. Since I don't really care to talk (vocally), the Skype stuff doesn't appeal to me; but, I really plan to try the cat trick on mine. What a tidy way to put them away for the night! Thanks for the laugh.
Cop Car
At 12:50 PM, Rain Trueax said…
sounds interesting and I had never heard of it. I have a slower computer; so might not work for me right now but I'll keep it in mind for the future
At 12:16 AM, Anonymous said…
Lucy...thanks to you I've got Skype downloaded, ready to go for RB's PhoneCon Tues. I can't believe how easy it was to do. I have an older computer with no built-in mike, so I purchased an inexpensive USB headset/microphone which plugs right into my flashdrive port on the front of my CPU. Aren't you impressed with all those tech terms I'm using??? I even know what some of them mean! *grin*
The point is, I surely do hope that you call in Tues., 'cause maybe I'll be there at the same time and will get a chance to say "hi" and "thank you" to you.
Heck, I don't even care if you put your teeth in or not, and I darn sure won't know or care what your hair looks like. If you feel like it you can wait and take a "spit bath" after the PhoneCons over, I'll never know the difference. *smile*
At 5:35 AM, Endment said…
How well you have described some of my recent days ---
We have decided to get together and have a pity party - Want to come? :)
At 12:41 PM, Anonymous said…
"Don't Push the River, It Flows By Itself" .... I just LOVE it. Don't you wish you wrote that book? I recently heard the title, "Things I've Learned Since I Knew It All." Lucy, you can really have some fun thinking about what you'd put in that book. Take care - hope you feel better. ;)
At 2:36 PM, Anonymous said…
Hi LucyBabe -- I've heard of Skype too, just never thought I'd find anyone who is young enough and still full of enuf enthusiasm (well, some days anyway. Hah) to give it a shot. So I will, too.
Sure ain't gonna hurt any more or less if we don't keep on truckin'. Keep moving, right??
Some years ago I communicated online with something called ICQ, guess that was the precursor of Instant Messaging (?). We got tired of that. Ready to move up now...ta-dah!
Speaking of the once-in-a-while Pity Party we all indulge ourselves in now and then---I don't mind those 'cause it generally goes away in a day or so.
But long-term, debilitating depression is something else. It's mental and physical. Lately I've sunk down there with the other Sad & Blue people. LOL It's time to call my primary care doc and make an appointment. I think I need an upgrade on my anti-depressant medication. Getting some psychotherapy would be good, too.
I'm just so goldarn tired of constant pain, narcotic medications, and just plain having to give up the many physical activities I used to take for granted. Growing old is not for sissies.
But we shouldn't moan and groan, though. There's nothing uglier than an old person who does nothing but kvetch and piss & moan about everything, right? I generally think of the alternative and that tells me *Life* ain't all bad.
See ya at Skype.....
At 4:22 PM, Anonymous said…
Awwww Lucy...sorry to hear that the evil, rakish devil Depression has knocked at your door. Sometimes, I hate to admit it, but I let him in too. And then he's like an unwelcome house guest -- who takes up all the space and eats whatever bits of joy you have hanging around. Is there a witchdoctor close by?
At 6:37 AM, Anonymous said…
I've really missed your blog entries, Lucy and hoped you were alright. Glad to hear things are slowly improving for you.
How I'd love to get involved with the phone thing...but at the moment, my platter overflows and I'm limited from taking on new play things....darn it.
Take care and keep these posts coming....I enjoy them so much!
At 1:52 PM, Anonymous said…
Even Hunky Husband got a kick out of the instructional cartoon. Thanks!
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